as a cat ruled human, i understand this dichotomy first hand- classic virgin/whore cat scenario. you are powerless to their mojo. accept and embrace it.p.s. i love these felines!
Thanks, Violet. I've long ago given up any illusion that I hold any authority in our feline-ruled household. Cats demand their autonomy, and we serfs cater to their needs. Good thing they're such interesting and endearing little cusses, otherwise I might begin to resent my slave status.;)